8 signs you are being used by a narcissist

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Signs you're being used (or are using others)

1. Tries to mold you to fit them (and vice versa)

• Don't respect who you are

• (other) Dumbest things I ever did; make up

2. Leaves you behind

• constantly chasing them or

• making you jealous

• (dumbest thing I ever did)

3. Words don't match actions

• Includes implied intentions

• Lying (not miscalculating)

4. Takes your loyalty for granted

• Expect reciprocation

• First, look in the mirror

5. Change plans without regard

• Manager changes the work schedule without notice

6. Expects you to be always available

• work on holidays

7. Self absorbed/One-way relationship

(some people are happy unless they're unhappy)

• Don't just have a wedding; have a marriage

• It's all about him/her

• My role is not to be happy, but to make her happy

• If she's not happy, I'm not happy. I may be failing somewhere.

8. Belittles you; mocks you
• Beyond teasing