Why you can't win an argument (with a narcissist)

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1. Two different objectives: truth vs ego

"Winning" an argument means "establishing the truth"
They are intentionally illogical
Why? Two different objective: truth vs ego

2. They deny

Whatever is true, they deny it
They already know the truth

The narcissist knows the truth, and it is his/her enemy

It is important to understand that the narcissist'S objective is not
to establish truth, but to destroy it.

So, everything you say, they destroy

3. They lie

Narcissists invent an alternate narrative
They replace the truth with lies

4. They confuse

By distorting the truth, they cause confusion
Like taking clay and remolding it

5. They validate

By recruiting an army of flying monkeys, agents, or proxies
"The majority wins"

6. They blame shift

You are the abuser and they are the abused

7. They only care about themselves, not the truth


8. Make it about you, not them

They omit truth, deny it, or flip it
You are presented to others as the narcissist
The "battleground" is in the minds of others
They ignore what you did for them